well, looks like both of you just misunderstood me or I wasn't able to explain me..
asking for feature is not a bad idea, even if NFR should be in some way catalogued, just to see WHAT people ask and discuss the opportunity to develop them or not.. is there such a catalogue? where it is?
The real fact here is that there are way too many "hei guys, add this, that, $whatever" e really few "oh, guys, how can I add this feature? I'm really interested, I need it"
moreover, such a requests are seldom just "do it"..
when you talk about "our culture", who are you referring to? the community?
anyway, I NEVER told anyone (if I did it I apologized and I'm ready to do it right now again) here or elsewhere to STOP talking/writing.